#ctwmnzrincanada photos & videos

3 weeks ago

Someone should probably Photoshop my boyfriend into this pic.⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Dec 2019

Up to what extent are you going to keep blaming your parents for your unresolved childhood issues? Sure, they did some damage, but you're an adult now and you have all the resources to help you get better. Now the question is, do you want to take the responsibility for where you are now and do everything you can to resolve your issues?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Dec 2019

"Sis, ada yang mau kenalan sama u. Dia lulusan Stanford, nyetirnya Lamborghini, punya Venture Capital, anaknya yang punya perusahaan ini loh..."⠀ ⠀ Umm ok, first, I'm taken, second, even if I was single, am I supposed to be impressed by his credentials? The thing is, your bank account doesn't impress me as much as your daya juang, your work ethics, your determination, and your resilience. Your title doesn't matter as much as your commitment, your trustworthiness, and your ability to make me feel safe and secure.⠀ ⠀ If what you can offer is financial security, don't bother, because I'm not a mercenary bitch, I don't need a sugar daddy. I can support myself just fine and I'm proud of that. Show me I'm the only one, show me you're in it for the long haul, and I'm yours for as long as my heart beats.⠀ ⠀ BTW, I'd like to give you a USD50 discount and extra 30 photos for a 2-hour photo session with @sweet .escape anywhere in the world, except Indonesia, Singapore, and The Philippines. All you need to do is quote CATWOMANIZER during checkout. This promo is valid until March 2020. Thank me later!⠀⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

"Cici udah 30 tapi belum bisa berenang sama nyetir??" Yagitude, but hey, it's never too late to start, that's why this year and next, I've promised myself to learn at least one new skill and try something different at least once a month.⠀ ⠀ Did you know? Learning new skills and knowledge makes you more interesting. The more we know, the more likely we are to find common grounds with other people, thus make it easier for us to make new friends and connections because we'll always have something to talk about, even with strangers!⠀ ⠀ Learning new skills helps us find what we truly love to do as well, because sometimes money isn't the only thing that motivates us—having a sense of purpose is. And depending on what we learn, we might use our new knowledge to build both technical or soft skills to advance our career, so we can make more #cuan , especially now that we have the tools to make better informed decisions.⠀ ⠀ This is also what having a growth mindset means—that we're open to trying different things, that we understand that challenges help us grow personally and professionally. People with a growth mindset want to become better, achieve more, and put in the effort and dedication required to reach their goals.⠀ ⠀ If you have this kind of mindset, keep it up! And find someone who shares the same mindset, otherwise lelah banget kalau kita mau maju tapi dianya merasa cukup segitu-segitu aja. Kebayang nggak kalau kita setengah mati kerja keras demi gaji yang lebih tinggi, sedangkan dia sudah puas dengan pendapatan dia dan malah nyuruh u untuk turunin lifestyle u?⠀ ⠀ There is nothing sustainable about being with someone who drags you down instead of lifting you up. So yeah, I'm committed to stay curious, what about you?⠀ ⠀ --⠀⠀⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀⠀⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

Darling, remember, it's better to wait long than to marry wrong. If you're unhappy even when you're still in the dating phase, why do you think being married will solve your problems and make you happy?⠀ ⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

I turned 30 on November 18th and I'm so grateful for each and every one of you who took part in making my birthday extra special and memorable this year. And now please allow me to share a few things I learned this year:⠀ 1 ) Cherish the time you have with the people you love, because you'll never know when it's time to say goodbye. Treasure them and don't take them for granted, because there may come a day that they think they'd be better off without you.⠀ ⠀ 2 ) Just because you're having a bad day, a bad week, a bad month, doesn't mean you're having a bad life, so don't quit just yet. We're never given more than we can handle, right? Keep going because you will see the light at the end of the tunnel, trust me.⠀ ⠀ 3 ) Learn to let go. Belajar ikhlas of the things you can't control and focus on the things you can.⠀ ⠀ 4 ) Invest in yourself. Get out of your comfort zone and learn a new thing or a new skill every month. You will not regret it, I promise.⠀ ⠀ 5 ) Take your chances. Go say hi first. Tell them they're beautiful. Ask them out on a date. Tell them how you feel. You'll always wonder until you give it a shot.⠀ ⠀ And because I'm feeling generous, I'd like to give you a USD50 discount and extra 30 photos for a 2-hour photo session with @sweet .escape anywhere in the world, except Indonesia, Singapore, and The Philippines. All you need to do is quote CATWOMANIZER during checkout. This promo is valid until March 2020. Thank me later!⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

I've always wanted to see an ice hockey game, especially now that I'm back in Vancouver and it's hockey season. It just so happens last night @lexilexi38 randomly messaged me on Instagram, saying "BTW, lemme know when u guys wanna see some hockey" (because I mentioned to her that my roommate and I were planning to go ), to which I impulsively responded "LEXI LET'S GO!"⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ So there I was, buying 2 hockey tickets off @stubhubca at midnight, for the last game that's playing earlier tonight. It's @coloradoavalanche VS @canucks . It's a fun and exciting experience for both of us because it's our first hockey game ever (and because I'm from Jakarta, she's from France, and we've never been to one before ).⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Congrats for winning, #coloradoavalanche . Good game, #canucks . One more item ticked off my Canadian experience bucket list! 🥳⠀ ⠀ What about you? What are the items that you've ticked off your bucket list this year?⠀ ⠀⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

"Cici ngapain sih bolak-balik ke Vancouver mulu? Ada kerjaan atau gimana?"⠀ Oh tentu tidak, saya di sini setiap hari justru hanya buang-buang uang saja kerjaannya. That, and catching up on Grey's Anatomy on Netflix. Mana petugas imigrasi bandara nggak percaya karena w gak ada itinerary, sampai diinterogasi 3x sama 5 petugas, termasuk petugas keamanan, sampai isi koper semua dibongkar, diperiksa, termasuk 2 iPhone w, sampai ke chat iMessage dan WhatsApp, juga profil Instagram w huft.⠀ ⠀ "Budget berapa, Ci?"⠀ Nggak ngebudgetin untuk belanja skin care dan experiences, tapi tentu ngebudgetin untuk biaya hidup selama di sini, yang mana disesuaikan dengan gaya hidup selama di Jakarta. Jujur pengen beli fancy designer shoes and bags tiap kali mampir ke Nordstrom, tapi diri ini nggak bisa justifikasi beli sepatu seharga 10jt ke atas, rasanya kok ya mending buat nabung saham aja biar #cuan .⠀ ⠀ "Cici di Vancouver tinggal di mana? Ada saudara?"⠀ Nggak ada saudara, adanya teman-teman, itupun kenalannya pas liburan di sini summer lalu, ataupun yang baru-baru kenal minggu-minggu lalu. Nginepnya di Airbnb, bayarnya CA$650 untuk 3 minggu, lokasinya cuma 3 stop (kurleb 15 menit ) dari Downtown via SkyTrain. Selalu suka kenalan sama orang baru makanya senang kalau bisa ngobrol-ngobrol sama roommates di Airbnb.⠀ ⠀ "Biaya hidup di Vancouver berapaan, Ci?"⠀ Cek sendiri di Canada highlights tiap kali w share harga belanjaan, makanan, atau experiences yang w cobain yes. Terus kira-kira sendiri.⠀ ⠀ Mau tanya-tanya apa lagi?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

So happy to be back in this cold, rainy city—where it smells like weed and piss on the streets, where the people are so friendly they wouldn't hesitate to smile and compliment your hair color out of nowhere. Thank you for making me feel like home. Je suis amoureuse avec toi, Vancouver. 🥰⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ 📷: @marioscaricatures ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Aug 2019

Thanks for the surprises, @marioscaricatures ! BTW, Mario is the guy who randomly stopped me while I was walking into Nordstrom, asking if I'd like to be drawn. Turns out he's my friend's ex-colleague, @heycalista . Small world, isn't it?⠀ ⠀ Don't mind the silly hashtags.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada ⠀ ⠀ --⠀ #Repost @marioscaricatures ⠀ ⠀ DEA @catwomanizer @clickitty ⠀ drawing #⃣058⠀ @starbucks ⠀ ⠀ Dea i̶s̶ ̶o̶b̶s̶e̶s̶s̶e̶d̶ LOVES cats and she's got 2 at home: PEPSI and NALA.⠀ ⠀ #brownsugar#supersayianhair#kawaii ⠀⠀ #mariodraws ⠀⠀ #sayalaparrrrr#nala#gerdsuperpower#edmlover#potato#ramen #ラーメン#catlife#superstar#amasian#indoaccent#似顔絵 #animation#potayto #potahto#pepsi#bubbletea#semangattt

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Aug 2019

Remember, you can't control other people, you can only control yourself. Sisanya pilihan. 🤷🏻‍♀️⠀ ⠀ 📷: @adictcreative#CTWMNZRinCanada

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Aug 2019

Let me tell you something. A relationship is like a house made of bricks. Every time you lie, you take away a brick—you essentially chip away at their trust. They would become so doubtful and end up questioning their reality because they will get to a point where they are unable to tell where you'd draw the line.⠀ ⠀ Your "good" intentions, they backfire. If you'd rather tell white lies, saying it's because you want to protect them, who's to say you won't lie about bigger things to cover up your messes?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Aug 2019

I'm a November baby and I've been meaning to spend my birthday either in Vancouver or LA. Kebetulan banget di #HSBCANATravelFair lagi heboh bagi-bagi diskon tiket PP Jakarta-Vancouver 8,9jt aja, atau Jakarta-LA 9,3jt, incl bonus cashback up to 1,5jt per tiket dan voucher MAP pun! #CuanIsLife ⠀ ⠀ Selain Vancouver dan LA, destinasi diskon lainnya yaitu ke Tokyo, Osaka, Fukuoka, Seattle, dan New York! Penerbangannya hingga 31 Juli 2020, gengs. Yang mau dapat tambahan cashback hingga 9jt, bisa buka rekening HSBC Advance pas event bareng teman-teman. Langsung hunting sendiri ke Central Park Mall 8-11 Agustus besok yes!⠀ ⠀ Info lebih lanjut klik hsbc.co.id/ana⠀ ⠀ #FlyAwayToday #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Aug 2019

If they don't make real efforts, they don't deserve your selfies.⠀ ⠀ --⠀ Digging my new #elumen hair color thanks to @hairstuffbyalex from @highfidelityhair 🥰⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Aug 2019

Thursdays are not the same without you at our favorite ramen bar.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

It's only been two days but I'm missing my sweet and silly roommates already! Take care in Vancouver, hold on to my hair curler @rakhianid and I'll see you in November!⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

Darling, before you go around asking strangers and friends "Kalau gue gituin pacar gue, gue salah gak, ya?" ask yourself this question: if they did the same thing to you, how would that make you feel? I'm not your friend, I'm not here to justify your poor decisions.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

Dear my favorite serendipity, I wasn't looking for you. I wasn't expecting you. And I don't know what life has in store for us, but I'm grateful we met and I'm excited to find out how our story unfolds.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

You're definitely my favorite notification ever. ♥️⠀ ⠀ What about you? Besides laporan duit masuk, what sort of text message makes you smile and from who?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

"Kita ini... apa, ya?"⠀ ⠀ So you've been seeing this person for quite a while and now you feel it's time to define the relationship. The purpose of defining the relationship is, of course, to determine where you stand, what their expectations are going forward, and if it's actually going anywhere; It's essentially a conversation about boundaries and expectations.⠀ ⠀ It's like the trial period is over and now the two of you have to decide whether to pay for the subscription. The talk, it can be awkward, it can be tough, but it can also be quick if you both know what you want. It's okay to let things unfold naturally, but you don't want to wait too long if a committed relationship with clear terms is something you're looking for.⠀ ⠀ You surely don't want to date them for a while before realizing they want different things, that they're only looking for Friends with Benefits and they're still sleeping with a ton of other people, for example. Keburu baper yekan, cyin? ⠀ This is exactly why you need to know what you want, so you can communicate that from the beginning. Hell, I usually talk about it on the first date so both my date and I are on the same page, even though things might not work out between us.⠀ ⠀ Remember, all roads lead somewhere, and sure, it can be one hell of a journey, but if you don't know where it takes you, you're gonna end up with a broken heart and wasted time.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

"Gpp lah dia lagi sibuk."⠀ ⠀ Right. Stop making excuses for them. Stop justifying their excuses when they don't text you back, when they stop asking you out, or when they confuse you with their uncertainties. Stop fooling yourself. ⠀ ⠀ Imagine you were limited edition sneakers, do you think he would pass up on the opportunity to make you theirs before anyone else snatches you?⠀ ⠀ Nobody is ever that busy. If they think you're worth it, they will claim you, they will make time for you, they will make you feel secure, and they will fight for you.⠀ ⠀ --⠀ Wearing these legendary moto leggings from @spanx . $122 at @hudsonsbay . ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

Sometimes all it takes is a tiny spark to burst into a mighty flame. Any memorable stories on how you first met your significant other that you'd like to share?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

Remember, you'd always be too loud, too bawel, too aggressive, too clingy, too much for someone who's not into you. Let go. And eat your ramen. The best miso ramen I've ever tasted in my life so far, so rich, flavorful, and addictive! @gyozabarvan 🍜 ⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

If you want something bad enough, with patience and determination, you will make it happen.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Basi banget kalau sibuk dijadikan alasan nggak sempat ngabarin, nggak sempat ketemuan, atau nggak ada waktu untuk membangun hubungan dengan seseorang yang benar-benar berarti.⠀ ⠀ Maybe you just don't want them bad enough, but you also don't want to hurt their feelings and still want to keep them around at the same time, so you'd rather lie behind your fake "Sori gw lagi sibuk, nih" and only come around whenever it's convenient for you. Man up and tell them the truth.⠀ ⠀ Speaking of, what do you wish people would be more honest about? ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

People are not mind-readers, and honestly, maybe it's a good thing. Some words are best left unspoken, and some things are best left unsaid, but if you could tell them one thing, what would it be?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

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Jun 2019

Ask and ye shall receive. Take risks. Don't be afraid of failure and rejection. Tell them how you feel. Tell them you miss them. Tell them you (still ) love them. You'll never know until you try.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

You won't find what you need if you don't know what you want and where to look for it.⠀ ⠀ Remember the time I left my wallet on the bus to Banff? I filed a report to the bus' company and told them about my red wallet that I accidentally dropped on the bus. The customer service said the driver didn't find anything, so this time I figured I'd be more specific by telling them the exact spot where I thought I left it, which was on the floor under the seats with the power outlets. They're kind enough to pass the information to the driver and ask him to double check. They found it, it's a happy ending for me.⠀ ⠀ Just like finding a lost item, you need to be specific when you're trying to find the right person. The qualities you want in a partner, write them down on a piece of paper, visualize it. Think about where this particular type of people would hang out in and if they'd be interested in you.⠀ ⠀ Be realistic. Be honest to yourself. Do you possess those qualities you're looking for in a partner? This doesn't mean you need to change yourself into someone you're not just so you could attract the people you want, keep improving yourself so you attract high-quality people instead. If you want to find the right person, first be the right person yourself. Good luck!⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

Take comfort in knowing that nothing lasts forever, not even your troubles. Everything heals. Bad times don't last. This, too, shall pass. Trust me.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

Maybe I'm too late to be your first, but right now I'm preparing myself to be your last.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

You don't find your worth in a man. Find it in yourself, then find a man who's worthy of you.⠀ ⠀ Did you know? The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationships you have. You can be hard on yourself at times, you judge yourself, or engage in negative self-talk, but when you treat yourself without respect or love, you basically give others permission to do the same.⠀ ⠀ Be able to stand up for yourself and say “I’m better than this. I’m not going to tolerate this.” It might be easier said than done, but it's not impossible, and as your self-love increases, your tolerance for negativity and disrespect decreases, and these toxic relationships just won’t be worth your time and energy anymore. Cheers!⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

"It's the time you spent on your rose that makes your rose so important." — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince ⠀ Letting go is hard when you've got so many memories, when you've been through so much with them, when you think you've come to understand them so well and they understand you like no other.⠀ ⠀ The more you're invested in them, the more important they become, so you hold on to them even when deep down you know they're not good for you, you know they're not compatible with you. Nggak rela, nggak ikhlas. I know. But sometimes, the best way to be happy is to learn to let go of the things that are no longer good for you.⠀ ⠀ You might think you'll never get over it, but once you also thought it'd last forever. Don't worry. You'll be okay, even when you're not.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

You're definitely one of the best things that's ever happened to me. What about you? What's the best thing that happened to you this weekend?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀⠀ BTW, get US$50 off and extra 30 photos for a 2-hour photo session ANYWHERE in the world by quoting CATWOMANIZER during checkout. Valid until Dec 31st, 2019!⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

Don't rush things that need time to grow. You don't want to be with someone for the label, you don't want just any warm body next to you; You want someone who's there for you through the ups and downs. You want someone who's consistent, who shows up, who will not ghost you. You want something that lasts forever. Trust the timing. If it's meant to be, it will be.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

It's very liberating when you finally realize it's impossible to make everyone like you. It's not your job to please everyone anyway. Your job is to do the right things, the things that spark joy to you, because people will talk about you no matter what. Remember, even the Messiah Himself had haters.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

You know that an end means a new beginning, right? You're fine before them, you'll be fine after them. Keep the faith.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

"Gpp lah dia lagi sibuk."⠀ ⠀ Right. Stop making excuses for them. Stop justifying their excuses when they don't text you back, when they stop asking you out, or when they confuse you with their uncertainties. Stop fooling yourself. ⠀ ⠀ Imagine you were limited edition sneakers, do you think he would pass up on the opportunity to make you theirs before anyone else snatches you?⠀ ⠀ Nobody is ever that busy. If they think you're worth it, they will claim you, they will make time for you, they will make you feel secure, and they will fight for you.⠀ ⠀ --⠀ Wearing these legendary moto leggings from @spanx . $122 at @hudsonsbay . ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Dec 2019

"Sis, ada yang mau kenalan sama u. Dia lulusan Stanford, nyetirnya Lamborghini, punya Venture Capital, anaknya yang punya perusahaan ini loh..."⠀ ⠀ Umm ok, first, I'm taken, second, even if I was single, am I supposed to be impressed by his credentials? The thing is, your bank account doesn't impress me as much as your daya juang, your work ethics, your determination, and your resilience. Your title doesn't matter as much as your commitment, your trustworthiness, and your ability to make me feel safe and secure.⠀ ⠀ If what you can offer is financial security, don't bother, because I'm not a mercenary bitch, I don't need a sugar daddy. I can support myself just fine and I'm proud of that. Show me I'm the only one, show me you're in it for the long haul, and I'm yours for as long as my heart beats.⠀ ⠀ BTW, I'd like to give you a USD50 discount and extra 30 photos for a 2-hour photo session with @sweet .escape anywhere in the world, except Indonesia, Singapore, and The Philippines. All you need to do is quote CATWOMANIZER during checkout. This promo is valid until March 2020. Thank me later!⠀⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

Never compare your journey to someone else's. It's not about who gets married younger, has kids earlier, reaches the senior manager position and earns a double digit salary faster, etc. Life is not a competition with strangers on Instagram, with your ex-high school mates, with your boyfriend's ex, with your ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend. The only thing you need to focus right now is your own self-improvement, and you'll be just fine. . #CTWMNZRinCanada

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May 2019

In case you missed my updates, I'm currently traveling to Vancouver, Canada for 2,5 months. It's only been 7 days and I've survived with exactly $100 cash in my wallet, and I don't plan on withdrawing more cash because cashless FTW! . Which is possible thanks to @jeniusconnect VISA Debit Card. Rate-nya oke, nggak ada limitasi nominal transaksi, dan tinggal tap ke mesin EDC aja nggak usah digesek. Dari mulai beli hotdog pinggir jalan sampai beli iPhone, semuanya tinggal tap. Another thing I like the most about it is that I get to check my expenses directly from Jenius app on my phone! Jadi ketauan kalau dikurs ke Rupiah jadi berapa, termasuk nilai tukar Rupiah ke Dolar Kanada. #hari2jenius . What about you? What's your most Jenius moment? . #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Nov 2019

"Cici udah 30 tapi belum bisa berenang sama nyetir??" Yagitude, but hey, it's never too late to start, that's why this year and next, I've promised myself to learn at least one new skill and try something different at least once a month.⠀ ⠀ Did you know? Learning new skills and knowledge makes you more interesting. The more we know, the more likely we are to find common grounds with other people, thus make it easier for us to make new friends and connections because we'll always have something to talk about, even with strangers!⠀ ⠀ Learning new skills helps us find what we truly love to do as well, because sometimes money isn't the only thing that motivates us—having a sense of purpose is. And depending on what we learn, we might use our new knowledge to build both technical or soft skills to advance our career, so we can make more #cuan , especially now that we have the tools to make better informed decisions.⠀ ⠀ This is also what having a growth mindset means—that we're open to trying different things, that we understand that challenges help us grow personally and professionally. People with a growth mindset want to become better, achieve more, and put in the effort and dedication required to reach their goals.⠀ ⠀ If you have this kind of mindset, keep it up! And find someone who shares the same mindset, otherwise lelah banget kalau kita mau maju tapi dianya merasa cukup segitu-segitu aja. Kebayang nggak kalau kita setengah mati kerja keras demi gaji yang lebih tinggi, sedangkan dia sudah puas dengan pendapatan dia dan malah nyuruh u untuk turunin lifestyle u?⠀ ⠀ There is nothing sustainable about being with someone who drags you down instead of lifting you up. So yeah, I'm committed to stay curious, what about you?⠀ ⠀ --⠀⠀⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀⠀⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jun 2019

Don't rush things that need time to grow. You don't want to be with someone for the label, you don't want just any warm body next to you; You want someone who's there for you through the ups and downs. You want someone who's consistent, who shows up, who will not ghost you. You want something that lasts forever. Trust the timing. If it's meant to be, it will be.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Jul 2019

"Kita ini... apa, ya?"⠀ ⠀ So you've been seeing this person for quite a while and now you feel it's time to define the relationship. The purpose of defining the relationship is, of course, to determine where you stand, what their expectations are going forward, and if it's actually going anywhere; It's essentially a conversation about boundaries and expectations.⠀ ⠀ It's like the trial period is over and now the two of you have to decide whether to pay for the subscription. The talk, it can be awkward, it can be tough, but it can also be quick if you both know what you want. It's okay to let things unfold naturally, but you don't want to wait too long if a committed relationship with clear terms is something you're looking for.⠀ ⠀ You surely don't want to date them for a while before realizing they want different things, that they're only looking for Friends with Benefits and they're still sleeping with a ton of other people, for example. Keburu baper yekan, cyin? ⠀ This is exactly why you need to know what you want, so you can communicate that from the beginning. Hell, I usually talk about it on the first date so both my date and I are on the same page, even though things might not work out between us.⠀ ⠀ Remember, all roads lead somewhere, and sure, it can be one hell of a journey, but if you don't know where it takes you, you're gonna end up with a broken heart and wasted time.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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⁣Say this with me: My value doesn't decrease based on their inability to see my worth. I am enough and I respect myself enough to let go of the people who can't appreciate me for who I am. I will not lower my standards and I won't let anyone have the power to make me feel I'm not worthy of love. ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

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Oh honey, just because someone is good to you, doesn't mean they're right for you. . 📷: @adictcreative #CTWMNZRinCanada

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