@catwomanizer ANDREA GUNAWAN

📍Jakarta 🇮🇩 🐱 @clickitty Sexual Health Activist, Image Consultant and Dating Coach 👇🏻 Regularly talks about love, sex, and modern dating

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10 hours ago

Understand that people come and go, and life goes on whether you like it or not. Stop holding on to those who have let go of you a long time ago because you deserve your own happiness, too.


Introducing @abouttolucid : Surabaya's first thematic art exhibition featuring local artists, showcasing 3D interactive installations, lighting and neon shows, and hand-painted 3D glow-in-the-dark paintings, etc. The whole exhibition is designed to be Instagram-worthy, buat pre-wedding foto kalau mau juga boleh. Lokasinya di Pakuwon Mall, datang jam 10 pagi on a weekday aja, hopefully nggak terlalu crowded jadi nggak dibatasi waktunya.⠀ ⠀ It's honestly hard to pick a favorite installation, karena kita nggak hanya dimanjakan visually, but also auditorily, with all the music and sound effects. This exhibition is kids and family-friendly, too. Admission ticket price starts from IDR65k. Bisa book tickets via Traveloka Xperience, atau on the spot bayar pakai BCA supaya dapat diskon 15%. Exhibition runs until end of February 2020.


"S/he's like, 6 chicks/dicks ago, of course I've moved on." 🤸🏻‍♀️ Wdyt?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

3 days ago

When someone likes you, you will know. You won't have to wonder, because they will show it to you, not just with words, but also with actions.⠀ ⠀ They will find a way to talk to you even if it's just to ask how your day is going. They will make an effort to get to know you better. They will also make time for you and include you in their plans. Apalagi kalau sudah sayang?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinJapan

3 days ago

Why are boys told to be somebody while girls are told to find somebody? 🤔⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinJapan

5 days ago

🗣 SELINGKUH NGGAK ADA OBATNYA, KARENA SELINGKUH BUKAN PENYAKIT.⠀ ⠀ Sadari bahwa memang ada orang-orang yang nggak bisa dan nggak cocok bergaya hidup monogami, makanya ada polyamory atau open relationship (Google sendiri ). Whatever works for you might not work for other people, jadi perubahan hanya bisa terjadi kalau ada kemauan untuk berubah. Masalahnya bukan bisa atau nggak, tapi mau atau nggak.⠀ ⠀ Wdyt?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

6 days ago

1. If it's not a hell yes, it's a no.⠀ 2. If you have to beg for it, you either don't deserve it, or you're asking the wrong person.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinJapan

1 weeks ago

Traveling ke Jepang kali ini bawa Wi-Fi @travelrecommends_id , koneksi 4G-nya cepat, kuota unlimited, bisa dipakai up to 6 devices, dan yang paling penting, baterainya so far tahan 16 jam lebih! Thoughtful banget dibekali travel adapter pula. Harga sewanya starts from IDR35k/hari jadi hemat, apalagi kalau dipakai ramean. You're welcome, guys.

1 weeks ago

Mempertahankan cinta itu butuh usaha, konsistensi, dan kompromi, tapi bukan berarti selalu dibarengi sakit hati hanya demi mengejar kebahagiaan semu. Kalau dalam hubungan lebih banyak nangisnya daripada bahagianya, mungkin hubungannya perlu ditinjau ulang yes.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

2 weeks ago

Geng #YukNabungSaham goes to Japan! After spending 6 months educating the masses about the importance of investing in stocks bareng @indonesiastockexchange and @miraeassetsekuritas_id , kami diajak jalan-jalan field trip ke Tokyo Stock Exchange kemarin.⠀ ⠀ We were given a tour around TSE History Museum, where we learned about the history of Japanese securities market and visited the Market Center, Media Center, and Presentation Stage. We also had the honor of listening to their presentation about their financial literacy programs, where we got to ask questions and share our own strategies and programs.⠀ ⠀ Yang menarik, anak-anak dan guru-guru di Jepang juga sudah diajarkan tentang pentingnya nabung saham untuk dana pensiun supaya mereka bisa tetap mandiri, karena orang-orang Jepang umumnya berumur panjang, bahkan sampai 110 tahun! It was overall a memorable and insightful experience. Thank you for the opportunity, IDX and TSE!⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinJapan

2 weeks ago

Darling, you were fine before him, you will be fine without him. Have faith in yourself.

2 weeks ago

Food for thought.⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

2 weeks ago

Hi, guys. Just want to remind you, you deserve someone who consistently shows they care about you, someone who fights for you even when things get tough. Don't just settle to be someone's favorite when you can be someone's one and only.⠀ ⠀ Have a good weekend!⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @irezzpratama for @len .terra

3 weeks ago

We can't control how people perceive us, but we can control how we present ourselves in this visual world.⠀ ⠀ They say we shouldn't judge the book by its cover, but at the end of the day, we do evaluate people in the first few seconds of seeing them. Over these few years, I've learned that personal image can have an impact on the way we feel about ourselves, and on the way other people see us.⠀ ⠀ Did you know? Your online image and reputation can determine whether your profile gets swiped right, as well as whether you get called in for an interview. A poor image could not only taint your reputation, but also get you fired. That's why I pick images that help me look attractive, approachable, trustworthy, and competent.⠀ ⠀ The way I present myself both online and offline has a profound impact on my professional life, that's why I'm thankful for the portrait photo service that @len .terra provides. For IDR5mio, you can also get 25 photos that could help boost your online personal image.⠀ ⠀ What I like about them is they gave me photo references and directed me with the poses whenever necessary. I also like the way @irezzpratama made me feel comfortable and confident, so I could just focus on the shoot, not on my flaws and insecurities.⠀ ⠀ That being said, there is no harm in asking your friends for their perceptions of you. If you’re aware of how others view you, you’ll know better what to fix. Good luck crafting an impressive personal image!

4 weeks ago

I'll take a guy who gives me a peace of mind, security, and stability over a guy who's only cute, digandeng-ke-kondangan-nggak-bikin-malu. You?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

4 weeks ago

It's 2020. I spent my evening wondering why I suddenly got a second period after only 12 days—which shouldn't have been biologically possible as there should be no eggs released, at least until I'm done with my birth-control pills. Never have I ever experienced something like this in over 10 years of being on the pill and I wasn't having cramps or anything, so I was quite confused. I then decided to cancel my NYE plans and stayed home to call it a day earlier, and I'm glad I did, because contrary to popular belief, as an extrovert, we still appreciate our quiet, alone time.⠀ ⠀ What about you? Did you have a fun night with your friends and family? Any plans or resolutions for this year?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @len .terra

4 weeks ago

"The greatest gift you can give someone is your time, because it means you're giving a portion of your life that you'd never get back."⠀ ⠀ Being someone whose Love Language is Quality Time, I always make sure to spare some time just to hang out and catch-up with my closest ones. Sometimes I ask them to stay over at my place as well, but this time @jennyjusuf and I got the chance to have a staycation at @ritzcarltonpacificplace The Residences. Not only because we both need a little R&R in the comfort of a "home", but also because we want to reward ourselves for all of the hard work with the chance to reset. Even though it's only over the weekend.⠀ ⠀ We stayed in this one bedroom suite, which is so spacious and luxurious, with large windows and a marble bathroom, as well as a cozy featherbed. They also have a washing machine in the room, even housekeeping and babysitting services. This serviced apartment is available for either short and long-term rent; Two and three bedroom suites are also available so you can invite more family and friends to join. It's also located in Jakarta's CBD area, so it's super convenient to get around.⠀ ⠀ We also spent some time catching-up over dinner, where we enjoyed a wide variety of buffet dinner at @pasolajakarta , that can be reserved through @eatigo_id . Followed by a 60-minute Pacific Traditional Signature Massage to relieve our sore and tight muscles.⠀ ⠀ All I can say is I'm grateful to have spent some Quality Time with my best friend, @jennyjusuf . Because we always think we still have time, but we actually don't. It's weird that sometimes we take things for granted and act like we had unlimited time to live. So live in the present, call your father, hug your mother, kiss your lover, and spend time with the people who truly matter, because what you have is now.⠀ ⠀ #RCMemories #EatigoxTheRitzCarlton

5 weeks ago

Untuk apa terus memaksakan dengan dia yang enggan mengusahakan?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

last month

Up to what extent are you going to keep blaming your parents for your unresolved childhood issues? Sure, they did some damage, but you're an adult now and you have all the resources to help you get better. Now the question is, do you want to take the responsibility for where you are now and do everything you can to resolve your issues?⠀ ⠀ --⠀ 📷: @sweet .escape⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

last month

Have stories to tell, not stuff to show.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ That's why I'd rather spend money on experiences, not things. Sure, the new iPhone might excite me for a short while, but I will always cherish the memories from that time I went on a three-week-turned-into-a-three-month trip to Vancouver.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ I'd rather not spend all my hard-earned cash to buy a pair of Louboutins if it makes me worry about damaging it all the time. I'd rather invest in experiences that can give me longer lasting joy, enrich my life, and can never be taken away from me, unlike material possessions.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Speaking of new experiences and traveling, @traveloka has a surprise for you! Win FREE flight tickets to London and Osaka, as well as Traveloka gift vouchers worth up to IDR100mio. All you need to do is redeem your Traveloka Points dan tebak nilai perkiraan total hadiah #TravelokaPestaPoin sepanjang tahun 2019.⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Check out bit.ly/PestaPoinCatwomanizer for more info! Ok, now tell me, what's your most memorable travel experience in 2019?

last month

Why are you so afraid of being alone that you'd rather cling onto someone who's not even good for you just so you can say you "have" someone? Nggak capek nangis mulu, sis?⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets

last month

"Sis, ada yang mau kenalan sama u. Dia lulusan Stanford, nyetirnya Lamborghini, punya Venture Capital, anaknya yang punya perusahaan ini loh..."⠀ ⠀ Umm ok, first, I'm taken, second, even if I was single, am I supposed to be impressed by his credentials? The thing is, your bank account doesn't impress me as much as your daya juang, your work ethics, your determination, and your resilience. Your title doesn't matter as much as your commitment, your trustworthiness, and your ability to make me feel safe and secure.⠀ ⠀ If what you can offer is financial security, don't bother, because I'm not a mercenary bitch, I don't need a sugar daddy. I can support myself just fine and I'm proud of that. Show me I'm the only one, show me you're in it for the long haul, and I'm yours for as long as my heart beats.⠀ ⠀ BTW, I'd like to give you a USD50 discount and extra 30 photos for a 2-hour photo session with @sweet .escape anywhere in the world, except Indonesia, Singapore, and The Philippines. All you need to do is quote CATWOMANIZER during checkout. This promo is valid until March 2020. Thank me later!⠀⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRinCanada

last month

Be with someone who makes you laugh even when you're mad.⠀ ⠀ Did you know? Having a shared sense of humor makes you feel understood and more emotionally connected with your partner, which can increase the level of happiness and satisfaction in your relationship. Wdyt?⠀ ⠀ Speaking of communication and connection, I've activated myPRIO Plan from @xlprioritas so I can stay connected anywhere, anytime, without worrying I'd run out of credit or data. What about u?⠀ ⠀ #TentukanPRIORITASMU

last month

Balas dendam dan pembuktian diri FTW! 💪🏻 ⠀ ⠀ #CTWMNZRtweets